If you are a little nervous about starting counseling, you are not alone! Many people
experience some level of anxiety prior to their first session, and that is very normal!
When you arrive in my office, you will find a comfortable living room-like setting. You
will find that I have a very warm, down-to-earth personality, and our sessions sometimes
have a "sitting and talking over coffee" kind of feel. Many people think that counselors
are perfect people with all the answers. I can assure you, this is not true! I’m just a
normal person who happens to have extensive training in helping people work through their problems.
Prior to our first session, you will complete your intake paperwork in my HIPAA compliant patient
portal, so I can review them prior to our first session. When we meet, we will get to know each
other and expand upon information shared in your intake forms. You can ask me questions, too! We
will spend most of the session identifying what issues you want to work on and how they are affecting
your life. We will then set some goals and discuss how we want to get there.
Some problems might be a little embarrassing to talk about at first, and that's okay. After all,
we just met! While the more information I have helps me support you, there is no pressure or
obligation to talk about any topic you are uncomfortable discussing. Ever. What we talk about
and the issues we work on will always be on your own terms, whenever you are ready. Sometimes
that means "testing out the waters" with some smaller issues until you feel safe talking about
the bigger issues.